Kwi-indlela ngabo, malunga amane anesixhenxe bonke marriages apha end kwi-wokuqhawula umtshatoAlikwazi ukwahlula baqhuba kakuhle kakhulu phezulu kuba i-Western lizwe, e-United States inani ngu- umzekelo. Mihla, abantu get watshata, bahlale kunye kuba ngexesha kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ukukhula ngaphandle, kwaye endaweni staying kwi toxic budlelwane, baya wokuqhawula umtshato phambi kokuba uqale hating ngamnye enye, endaweni yokuba izinto idla nako ukuhlala nabahlobo bakho kwaye sibone ukuba yintoni eyona kuba abantwana babo. Wam paternal oomawomkhulu ingaba i-grand umzekelo njani kakubi ngayo yonke isebenza phambi wokuqhawula umtshato wabonwa njengoko KULUNGILE. Kokuba ifumene watshata kwi-emva kwexesha ke, wehla uphuma uthando kwi-mid- ke kodwa ukuhlala kunye de mid-'s kwaye onayo kakhulu embittered. Ukuba kokuba yahlula phezulu emva xa bawa ngaphandle uthando, mhlawumbi babeya ndithethe ngamnye enye ngoku, kwaye mhlawumbi wam uncle ebeya kuba ubudlelwane kunye unina kwaye wam aunt kunye lukayise. Kanjalo, mhlawumbi mna wouldn ukuba kufuneka tip-toe jikelele yokuba babe usharedi a ekhaya ndide wayeneminyaka elishumi okanye ke xa uthetha malunga wam lwabantwana abancinane memories. Umama wam ke, udade kunye negqiza iqabane lakho yahlula phezulu xa wam cousins baba jikelele, kwaye baya kusoloko ubeke zabo abantwana kuqala. Akukho mcimbi into yabo personal zenyama waba, abasokuze onayo embittered ngokwaneleyo na kuba abahlobo owathi abantwana kunye. Ngokuqinisekileyo, abanye couples kuncama kancinci kakhulu kamsinya, kodwa ngabo bobabini ithelekiswa kwaye ngokwenene wanikela musa. Abazali bam baba kwi verge ka-zinika phezulu amaxesha amaninzi emva xa kum kwaye wam nabantakwethu baba teenagers kwaye yonke into ukuze entailed. Kodwa ke, zilawulwe ukusebenza nge-ukuze kwaye ngoku kwi-zabo emva kwexesha ke abo. ngaphezulu kwe-uthando, ngonaphakade.
