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Steve Hitner isebenza ukutshintsha Massachusets' alimony umthetho emva kokungenisa ntoni yena unxulumano 'twilight eselunxwemeni ka-alimony ngaphandle endWam umtshato uphelile ngowe- emva amabini anesithathu eminyaka. Ndandisazi ndinga kufuneka ahlawule alimony, yahlula impahla yexabiso kwaye anike ye-inshorensi yezempilo kuba amanyathelo afanelekileyo ngokwe xesha. Kodwa umtshato ukuba bebe nzima iminyaka emininzi ekugqibeleni waba phezu, okanye ke ndandicinga. Andiyenzanga ndiyazi mna wayesele eza kungena twilight eselunxwemeni ka-alimony-ngaphandle-end kwi-Emassachusetts. Inkqubo yovavanyo wathabatha iintsuku ezintathu, kwaye isigwebo wathabatha ishumi zidlulileyo. Mna ke ilungisiwe ukuhlawula dollazi ngeveki ngonaphakade.
Emva ithoba, bazalwana ishishini intlungu, njengoko abaninzi baye, kwaye andikwazi afford i intlawulo.
Mna racked phezulu ikhadi lebhanki letyala ityala ukuba terrified kum.
Wam isemthethweni eyilwayo baba phantse dollazi
Ndaba ukuba ifayile bankruptcy.
Xa ndaya inkundla ukulungisa alimony intlawulo, umgwebi recused herself ukusuka kunjalo, esithi umyeni kokuba kanye idlalwe amakhadi kunye bankruptcy trustee, kwaye ndiza kuba ukuqala phezu. Into waba kakhulu ezingachanekanga, kwaye ndino ukuze ulungise ngayo, kunye yam ngoku umfazi, Jeanie, kwaye eziliqela couples ngendlela efanayo kwiimeko, waqalisa oko waba alimony komhlaba yokuhamba-hamba. Ngelo xesha, andiyenzanga nokwazi kwaba ngokufanayo kuba ex-nabafazi umva inkundla xa umntu owayelilungu mlingane onayo watshata kwaye ufumane i-ukwanda alimony ukuba omtsha, umfazi wongeza ingeniso ukuba umtshato. Mna kanjalo bamfumana ukuba thoba-wamkela lowo utshate naye kufuneka ibe exhaswayo ukuba umgangatho we-ukuzonwabisa ye-mtshato kwaye ukuba iijaji ayikwazanga aphelise umhla alimony, nkqu kuba elifutshane marriages. Zonke alimony waba kuba ubomi. Payers akazange banelungelo umhlalaphantsi. Jeanie, owaye divorced Enew York emva -unyaka umtshato, waxelelwa ukuba yena ingaba get kuphela iminyaka emithathu isondlo. Xa watshata kum kwi-Emassachusetts, wayengomnye banyanzeleka ukuba negalelo ingeniso ukuba eyongeziweyo wam intlawulo wam ex-umfazi, okanye ndiza kuya ejele. Wathabatha kwi yesibini umsebenzi. Jones stories njenge bam baba esiza kuyo yonke imihla, kwaye abantu ukusuka zonke phezu kweli lizwe baqala ukungena MAR. Eyona nto ukuguqula incopho weza xa Boston Iglobhu wabaleka i-inqaku ukuba kuchaziwe Emassachusetts' alimony umthetho. Loo mini, abafazi abaninzi malunga enye amadoda ihlawulwe alimony ngokuba ukuthi baba ukurhoxisa zabo weddings. Yesibini Abafazi Club, namakhaya yi-dev liberal Scanlan, wazalwa. Steven Walsh advised kum okokuba legislators kuphela acted ngexesha 'trouble zabo dolophana. Thina wachitha iinyanga ezininzi ukufundisa ezo villagers ababe kwembandezelo phantsi komthetho njani persuade legislators ukuxhasa injongo.
Ngo, emva eziliqela nzame okokuba komhlaba, Emassachusetts ezomthetho chairmen wadala Alimony Komhlaba Umsebenzi Umkhosi.
Amalungu kwaquka Ngokwesiqu Bar, Boston Bar, loomama Bar, Plt-Association of Matrimonial abaqondisi-mthetho, wenkundla yezomgaqo-siseko ka-probate kwaye mna, kuphela nonlawyer. Mna ezinikezelwe iinkcazelo le iingxaki kwaye abaqondisi-mthetho enikwa i-izisombululo. I kuyo longeno umkhosi, Omkhulu Gail Candaras kwaye Rep. Uyohane Fernandes, ikuvumile ukungeniswa komthetho-sihlomelo osayilwayo, kwaye kwaba ophunyezwe unanimously Endlwini kwaye Yeengwevu. Kwaba watyikitywa Gov Deval Patrick ngoseptemba, ngo, kwaye sangena ukusebenza Ngomatshi. Omtsha umthetho ubonelela izikhokhelo nemigaqo-isakhiwo, ukungaguquguquki kwesiqulathi kwaye predictability. Inika amanyathelo afanelekileyo ngokwemiqathango yecandelo alimony ukunceda thoba-usamkela yangaphambili amaqabane lungelelanisa ukubuyela umsebenzi yentengiso okanye uhlala kwi zabo alimony, marital impahla yexabiso, Ukhuseleko Loluntu kwaye pensions ukususela umtshato.
Oko suspends, reduces okanye oqhawula alimony ukuba umamkeli lowo utshate naye ngu-co-habitating.
Payers' alimony obligation kuphela xa sukuba ukufikelela ngokupheleleyo umhlala-phantsi ubudala, njengoko zichaziweyo yi-arhente Yokhuseleko Lwezentlalo Mthetho. Oku kwenza i-payer kwaye payee ukuba isicwangciso kuba umhlala-phantsi ngenxa yokuba siyazi ozayo ixesha ukuba iya esiphelweni. Kukho izikhokelo ixesha elingakanani alimony kufuneka kuhlawulwa ngokusekelwe ubude umtshato. Ndithe ndaba ibiza malunga payers' ex-amaqabane yokufumana watshata. Elide-ixesha alimony payers ingaba ekugqibeleni free. Kokufumana amaqabane ingaba ke emva ukusebenza. Oko kwaba kanye i-entitlement ngoku ngokusekelwe kufuneka kwaye nako ukuhlawula. Iijaji kuba isikhokelo baya zithe ukucela kwaye ingaba ninoyolo ukuba unayo. Attorneys unako ukusombulula iimeko okokuba wahamba ngonaphakade, Emassachusetts abahlali bamele ayisasebenzi koyika ukufumana watshata kuba uloyiko unending litigation kwimeko umtshato lahluleka. Akukho mcimbi apho uhlala kwi-Emassachusetts, isiphumo siya kuba efanayo.
I-umsebenzi ndaqalisa ngoku zisasaza ezininzi states zonke phezu kweli lizwe.
Mna zithe kokubonisana kunye wokuqhawula umtshato komhlaba activists kwi-Florida, Colorado, Oregon, Connecticut, Enew Jersey, Virginia kwaye Abemi Carolina.
Abantu kufuneka ibe ngokunokwakhe emva ithuba alimony kwaye hayi rely i-eks-mlingane.
Alimony ufumana inkxaso intlawulo esuka mlingane, othe nako ukuhlawula, mlingane abasweleyo, kuba amanyathelo afanelekileyo ubude bexesha.
Ukuba kufuneka kuba umthetho, hayi, ngaphandle kwabafundi. Kwi-Emassachusetts, kungumsebenzi umthetho. Ngoku ngumsebenzi legislators ngamanye states ukuba umamele victims of ruinous alimony imithetho ukwenza efanayo.
